Student of Color Testimonies
December 16, 2020
“If you ever wanted to know one thing about what it’s like to be Armenian, it’s Tsvats Tanem. Let me take your pain away. The only time you will experience an angry Armenian is if you try to pay the bill at a restaurant. Our mothers without us even asking, barging into our rooms saying “ari mirq ker” meaning come eat fruit. Our Armenian pride is everlasting and even overbearing. Every corner of my house has a khatchar (engraved cross), evil eyes to protect us from the char atchk (bad spirits), and Armenian letters on my wall. We celebrate until three in the morning at weddings, we Michigan hop until our heels dig bleeding busters into our jumping feet, and we serve Armenian food to anyone and everyone until you can’t eat another bite. I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
- Maddie Belemjian
“In my experiences, being a student of color at Minnechaug is a question of invisibility. Purposeful or not, in social and learning situations, I found myself wondering if I felt invisible BECAUSE of my race or if my race was invisible to those around me because it was being disregarded. I found myself erased in the lessons of my history class and in the stories of my English class. Meanwhile, I was bombarded with ignorance and insensitive comments from my peers. At one point, I believe I even found myself purposefully erasing my blackness to adapt to my environment. Now I don’t know what changed, what switch went off in my head to realize the importance of my racial identity, but I know Diversity and Culture Club helped to usher in that change. Being in a space with other students of color where all of our struggles are acknowledged and understood, where our dialogue is open and truthful, where our presences aren’t hindered has been vital to my growth as a young black woman. And the way I carry myself today, with pride for who I am, will never be erased.”
- Maya Glenn
Magistra Henry • Jan 6, 2021 at 10:01 am
Thanks for sharing your experiences. I hope more students of color feel encouraged to raise their voices and that the rest of us can listen with open minds.
Maddie – I hadn’t heard of the Michigan hop before and looked it up. It reminds me of a traditional dance my classmates used to do at a Greek festival growing up and looks like fun!
Marissa Parent • Jan 6, 2021 at 9:47 am
Oh my cob I love these testimonies so much,, they’re short yet powerful, and it struck me on an emotional cord. Keep going, because you are both valid and shouldn’t have to fight just to be treated with equal respect from everyone. Love to you both and everyone else struggling just because of their race.
Morgan Hastain • Dec 24, 2020 at 7:02 am
These testimonies are beautiful. Maddie and Maya, you guys are wonderful, strong women and your voices deserve to be heard.
Deborah Sacon • Dec 23, 2020 at 10:00 am
Your voices are powerful, Maddie and Maya. Keep sharing your true selves, your heritage, your– well, your “YOU”. Proud of you.
kelly norris • Dec 23, 2020 at 9:49 am
OMG making me cry right now